The First Years American Red Cross Toddler Toothbrush, 2 Pack

Soft, safe, easy to handle for the adults doing the brushing and easy for your toddler to handle to practice. Looks similar to an adult toothbrush so they won't get confused when watching you brush.

my son has used this twice since he got it and it already looks like it was used to scrub a floor ... the bristles are bent and out of place and mangled
wonder how soon it will be until they are falling out too

I have no complaints - a soft bristle toothbrush that my son does not object to. Some people say its too soft because when their kid chews it, its destroyed - I wouldn't say destroyed, but definitely is not a teething toy. Infant toothbrushes are supposed to be soft and I just don't allow my son to chew on it. I change them out every 2 moths or so and I find they last fine for that length of time. Mine came with a nice holder that lets the brush stand on its end since the wide base doesn't fit in a toothbrush holder with our brushes. I brush my son's teeth 1st then let him hold it (seems easy and comfy for his little hands) to try to brush himself. Summary: its a toothbrush and it works.